Monday, September 14, 2009

22 years ago today....

A beautiful baby girl was born.

Never did I expect to experience life as a mother for the first time with nothing but pure happiness. She taught me to look for hidden laughter. Example, babies do dig in their poop diapers and when it's all over their face, don't ask, "What is that?"

She taught me that little things mean a lot. Example, she was attached not only to a favorite cabbage patch doll which she named Blue Baby but also a cd cover of Whitney Houston. Hard to explain why she was crying because her "Weenit" picture wasn't in the diaper bag.

She taught me to relax when she climbed up on chairs and tables and jumped off. She taught me to be calm when she bit a hole in her tongue the size of a quarter. Holding her hand as I drove to the ER, I realized just how precious she was and also how addicted to gum she was, after not being able to chew it for a few weeks.

She taught me that it's good to make up songs and sing them to anyone who was willing to listen, after all, everyone needs a little music in their lives. Who cares if it was the Annie song, Tomorrow, that she sung over and over again.

She taught me to appreciate the talent and abilities in people, no matter who they are. In her acting days, she thought Whoopi Goldberg was the greatest and wrote a letter to tell her so. She also watched the movie Ghost over and over again, at 6 years old. I have no idea what it was about that movie that she liked but she did.

She taught me that it was okay to eat an apple every day because it was preparing her to become the vegetarian that she is today.

She taught me to see love and beauty in everything. When her and her sister would play in their mud pool (too poor to afford a real pool...kidding) it was like the greatest thing ever.

Most of all, she taught me that being her mommy has been the greatest joy of my life.

I hope that you have a wonderful birthday. Although you're now a married woman, I will always think of you as my baby. Thank you for being a precious treasure in my life.

Happy Birthday, Ev'Yan! I love you!


Jeanette said...

That was beyond beautiful!

Frau said...

Ah! Happy Birthday to your girl! Wonderful are both lucky to have each other.

Buckeroomama said...

Happy birthday to your daughter! What a lovely, lovely post... and what a beautiful name she has. :)

Blessings to both of you.

Nezzy said...

Happy birthday to your beautiful baby girl who taught you unconditional love and blessings to the sweet Mama who gave her life. Have a great one!!!

Soxy Deb said...

That was so sweet and funny.
Happy Birthday Ev'Yan!

Ev`Yan said...

Awwwwww! I was quite the space cadet when I was little, wasn't I?

I love you!

Denise @ Sunflowers, Chocolate and Little Boys said...

What a beautiful post....and Happy Birthday Ev'Yan.

Danica said...


Happy birthday to your baby girl!

ethelmaepotter! said...

You two are blessed beyond compare. Happy birthday, baby girl.

Angel said...

Oh my goodness don't they grow fast? wow what a beautiful little one

Lin said...

Happy Birthday--to BOTH of you! What a special day for you both to share. She is lovely, Simone.

Barrie said...

What a neat post!

dana said...

Obviously you were a superb mother to learn such wonderful lessons. You did it the right way and I envy both of you.

Kwana said...

Happy birthday to your girl!

zunzun said...

That was beautiful...happy birthday to your "little" girl!

Suz said...

Great post. Just missing a photo of her now - the finished product!

Elle Bee said...

Happy Birthday to a lovely lady! That was such an utterly sweet tribute to her.

Joanna Jenkins said...

Your post is beautiful and heartfelt and so YOU that I'm sure your daughter knows how very loved she is.
xoxoxoxoxox to you BOTH!

blueviolet said...

Awwww....happy birthday!

Dandy said...

Awwww happy birthday to her!

sherry ♥ lee said...

What a beautiful tribute to such a beautiful these photographs!! Your memories are precious to both of you and I love how you have learned so much about mothering and life. A beautiful name by the son's name is Evan (he will soon be 22). We were on similar wave lengths back then I'd say!! :) Happy birthday to Ev'Yan and may she have many more filled with joy and possibility!

Anonymous said...

Everybody[url=]black penis porno[/url] heard rumours [url=]hot sexy porno[/url] about women[url=]free porno animal[/url] faking orgasms. Is that true? The majority of women have [url=]video porno en las escuelas de mexico[/url] faked at least one orgasm, yet some fake almost all of them. Why do they do that? There[url=]fat animal porno[/url] are many reasons and the case is that there's [url=]filme porno cu animale[/url] no one to blame.
The most [url=]free gay porno boys[/url] common are two [url=]asain homemade video porno[/url] reasons: they[url=]porno free movies[/url] don't want to make their partners feel bad [url=]free porno web sites[/url] or they are tired and just want to end sex. Most females say that their partners ar[url=]asian porno pics[/url] e not satisfied until the[url=]1970s cartoon porno bouncing balls and dicks[/url] girls feels orgasm, there's only one way to make them feel happy and stop the[url=]fotos y videos porno[/url] exhausting procedure - fake.
Another [url=]free mobile animal porno[/url] reason is that a[url=]teen porno tube[/url] typical female [url=]amputee porno tubes[/url] doesn't seek for orgasm; she desires a sexual [url=]free little girl porno movies[/url] relationship only because she wants intimacy. Still, such an attitude may make her partner feel bad. [url=]sex porno tube[/url] The only way out is to [url=]russian teen porno[/url] fake it out.
[url=]xxx porno free[/url] Some women never really experience orgasm while making sex, but they want their partner to feel good about himself and her. Men usually expect women to have pleasure, that's why females have no other choice. They have to fake to have a good relationship.
Loss of interest, having sex only because the partner wants to, also makes women to fake. Most females talk to their friends about such things and while they know other women act it, they do so too, because it's an easier way to have a good relationship.

Anonymous said...

In biology, sex is [URL=]free xxx video clips sex machines[/url]
a process of combining and mixing [URL=]forced to cum sex hard[/url]
genetic traits, often resulting [URL=]wild college sex parties[/url]
in the specialization of organisms into [URL=]girls having hard sex[/url]
a male or female variety (known as a sex). Sexual reproduction involves combining specialized cells (gametes) to form offspring [URL=]hardcore gallery sex pictures twilight[/url]
that [URL=]free animal sex with women[/url]
inherit traits from both parents. Gametes can be identical in form and function (known as isogametes), but in many cases an asymmetry has evolved [URL=]ameatur interracial sex videos[/url]
such that two sex-specific types of gametes (heterogametes) exist: male [URL=]sex machines for sale[/url]
gametes are small, [URL=]homemade sex machines for men[/url]
motile, and optimized to transport their genetic information over a distance, while female gametes are large, non-motile and contain [URL=]asian sex tgp[/url]
the nutrients necessary for the early development of the young organism.
An organism's sex is [URL=]porn stories including indian and malyali sex stories[/url]
defined by the gametes it produces: males produce male [URL=]teen sex tgp[/url]
gametes (spermatozoa, or sperm) while females produce female gametes (ova, or egg cells); individual organisms which produce both male and female [URL=]young asian teen sex[/url]
gametes are termed hermaphroditic. Frequently, physical differences are associated with the different sexes of an organism; these sexual dimorphisms can reflect the different reproductive pressures the sexes experience.
[URL=]sex with farm animals[/url]

Anonymous said...
This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.

Template by | Header Image by Freepik