Wedding canceled....until further notice
I wish I could say that this was a joke but it isn't. This time, it isn't me that has the jitters, it's Boo. We talked yesterday, off and on, through my tears and that was the conclusion that has been drawn. Until further notice...there will not be a wedding. Until the timing is right....there will not be a wedding.
Wish I would've had further notice to see all of this coming. But I didn't. I don't understand completely and I've asked him to help me to understand. As much as he's tried, my heart still remains broken.
Yes, he wants to marry me but after having my broken in a billion pieces, I need to take some time to breathe and seek God's wisdom in all of this. I know of no other way to hang on.
He realizes that he stands a chance in losing me. I won't wait until he finally discovers that what he has been waiting for has been here all along.
I love him but as the song says, "Love hurts". The pain will dissipate eventually but in the meantime, all I can do is breathe through it all.
Wish I would've had further notice to see all of this coming. But I didn't. I don't understand completely and I've asked him to help me to understand. As much as he's tried, my heart still remains broken.
Yes, he wants to marry me but after having my broken in a billion pieces, I need to take some time to breathe and seek God's wisdom in all of this. I know of no other way to hang on.
He realizes that he stands a chance in losing me. I won't wait until he finally discovers that what he has been waiting for has been here all along.
I love him but as the song says, "Love hurts". The pain will dissipate eventually but in the meantime, all I can do is breathe through it all.
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Im am, sorry the wedding is off for now. This will either make your relationship stronger or break it.
I hope for the stronger.
HUGS
Take extra special care of yourself right now and surround yourself with people who love you.
Big hugs and let me know if you need someone to talk to.
I'm sending love, hugs and prayers your way.
I did some serious soul searching and made the difficult decision to wait to see if things would get better.
They did, we got married when I was 44 (about a year after our cancelled wedding date) and 10 months later had the surprise of our lives when our daughter was born.
I guess what I really want to say is, take your time making any decisions, keep breathing and know that you are not alone.
My heart goes out to you,
Deb
Wait for the right time, you wouldn't want to find out later that the timing wasn't right. Right?
{{hugs}}
You will be in my prayers, here's sending you bountiful blessings......
Just hang in there, sister.
((hugs and prayers))
Keep the faith Sweetie~
♥,Lilly
Hallie
Pour your heart out to us, sweetie. Need to do a man-bashing post? Do it! Do whatever it takes. We're all here for you.
Hang in there, pally. I'm sending you love and encouragement. email me if you need a friend--I'm here for you....any time.
I sit here trying to think of comforting words, wise words, but I have none.
A minute or two has passed, as I still sit here, thinking about how life can be so difficult sometimes.
A poster with a bird on it that my mom gave me years ago said something like this: Free it, let it go. If it comes back to you, it is meant to be.
No matter. You are strong and you have love in your life. Hang on. We are here. xoxoxo
I know you are hurting and I wish I could be there to give you this hug. Just know how much I care
((((((((love you))))))) ♥
Hopefully during this time, both of you will realize if this wedding is truly meant to be than it will happen. Better to know now than once you have already said your I do's! Trust in God, lean on His understanding and He will heal your heart.
Love and Hugs ~ Kat
Breathe... and do keep the faith, no matter how hard it might seem to do so at this moment.
{{A big hug}}
- S.
You shared with us your excitement and nerves in taking the big step or remarrying and we, your readers, family and friends, will be there for you. Thanks for sharing such a heart breaking peace and I know God will continue t be your comfort and strength.
Continue to seek him for guidance. Remember that weeping may endureth for the night but joy cometh in the morning.
He has brought you along and he will not leave you nor forsake you.
Sending you lots of hugs and kisses!
You may not appreciate it at the moment, but eventually you will be able to see that things happen in God's perfect time, not ours.
You're literally in my thoughts and prayers.
Keep your mind open as well as your heart.
I am praying for you that you will find peace however God directs this chapter of your life.
I'll keep you in my prayers.